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Old 02-09-2011, 08:23 PM
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Originally Posted by LovingRadiance View Post
In some situations the mono does get the shitty stick.
In some the poly gets the shitty stick.
In still others both partners keep their heads out of their asses, continue to work daily on their own personal b.s. and manage to find the path to their success....
Ahh, and such is life. This is true of all relationships, whether poly or mono. It could be either party getting the shit end of the stick, or all parties wake up and work on it.
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