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Old 02-09-2011, 08:08 PM
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Originally Posted by sohuman View Post
Background: cheating to polyamory

...I was a cheater who at one point stopped even trying to rationalize my actions (a la, "he made me cheat, he didn't X enough"). I knew what I was doing was wrong, I felt like a complete shit for having feelings about other people, and even more of a shit for choosing to act on them. I carried around that feeling of being a bad person like a constant weight. Stopping all rationalization was, incidentally, my first step toward choosing ethical behavior for the future.
WOW. I share these feelings exactly. Uncanny.

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