Ok, well I'm certainly sorry that I have caused you nervousness. My understanding was that we were anonymous on here, and so we could say "whatever." It seems to me that we need to re-discuss this more so we can both be on the same sheet of music.
[brief discussion takes place b/c, after all, you are sitting just 6 feet behind me on the couch]
I am glad we had the opportunity to discuss this so that I feel as though I have a better understanding of what your needs are =-) I hope you feel more secure now as well, and I'm glad we can still leave everything up without needing to censor =-)