Originally Posted by RfromRMC
I sometimes think they'd rather both just steam and simmer for a while rather than try to resolve the conflict.
I sometimes need a few hours ALONE to rant, rave, cry and scream before I can even have a rational conversation. I need the time to get out of the "he is against me" zone. Then I can start to figure out what the real problem is and why it effected me so badly. The hardest part for me is actually addressing the problem once I've calmed down.