Originally Posted by redbullgivesuwings
Only took me 2 years to gather that but oh well the main thing is I have woken up - better late than never.
Sometimes these lessons, unfortunately, just need to be lived to be learned. Despite the pain caused by this whole ordeal, you now have some very specific things to look out for in the future.
That's thing about having an affair with someone... If they're cheating WITH you, they will always eventually cheat ON you. If they leave their spouse to be with you, they will eventually leave you to be with someone else. It's not that I don't believe cheaters can't
change, but most often, they don't