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Old 09-07-2009, 09:27 PM
XYZ123 XYZ123 is offline
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I'm sorry this is happening. In my marriage and any other relationship we might open to, we have always said our children are our primary relationship. So I understand his desire to be in their lives more.

But, as a product of parents who SHOULD have divorced, I can't understand staying together for the kids. Unless they can truly reconcile and they really want to be with eachother, a healthy divorce IMO is better on the children than a consistently unhealthy marriage. And he can remain involved in their lives as long as he's willing to put in the time and effort, with or without reconciling.
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