Originally Posted by greeneyes
I agree with most of what you're saying here, if not all of it. The observation I was making was not in order to justify controlling the actions of another, in an authoritarian sense, but to point out that humans do spend a good deal of energy attempting to control their own environments, any person, whether they are poly or mono or absolutely celibate and asexual with no interest in any kind of romance. I did not mean to assume that you, loving radiance, held any particular belief, but that it seems to be a popularly represented one here and with other poly resources I have looked at.
I've been trying to keep up with this conversation-in spite of ongoing drama in my personal life-because I'm enjoying this conversation.
But-admittedly-I haven't been putting my full mind to it.
Thank you for clarifying for me. I do appreciate the help.
I really enjoy the thought provoking questions and answers!