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Old 02-04-2011, 10:16 PM
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Carma Carma is offline
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Well there's the toughest part, I think -- the compromising! Just because you love someone unconditionally does that mean you have to accept everything they do? Sometimes I wonder if my mono husband can really handle this -- is it too much to ask of him? But I guess that is his decision to make. Would he be happier without me in his life, or would he rather work on accepting things about me he wishes were different?

I can accept the fact that he is mono, but how does that work -- I can't be mono right now; I can't pretend to be something I'm not, in order to make him happy.... because ultimately, how could that make him happy???

Whew! I confuse myself, even!
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