What you describe with these other women I'm sure nearly every man has felt at some stage whilst in a committed monagamous relationship. So you're not special in that regard, it's simply that most mono people do nothing about it (or cheat) because that's how we are raised.
The best way to start educating your wife is to watch movies with her that have these concepts in them. Start with Summer Lovers, then move to Vicky Christina Barcelona. See how she reacts to them. Then maybe start documentaries containing the concepts. I wouldn't tell her yet that you've had this "great idea" until she is familiar with the concepts. Easier that way. Converting a mono woman could take a year or two before she is fully educated on it and able to participate.
Last edited by preciselove; 02-04-2011 at 07:00 AM.