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Old 02-04-2011, 04:27 AM
booklady78 booklady78 is offline
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nycindie... you're awesome
I already knew everything you're saying, I just needed to hear someone state it as you did.
Our marriage is not conventional, we've always done what worked best for us, not what was expected. I'm trying to let go of so many conventions, pretty monogamous ones about what "marriage" is. Marriage is ultimately a partnership and we have one that works in so many ways.
It's been hard to be upset when hubby is upset though, I didn't have the words to reassure him. We've been talking more and we're accepting where we're at. We know we have some work to do, seems we've gotten really swept up in the whole "poly" thing and really needed to take a step back and say "Shit! Do you realize how much our lives have changed in the past year!"
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