Originally Posted by redpepper
I would suggest looking into this because its come up over and over again, not because of the woman you see once a week. You seem lost in nre and what could be at the moment and I think it wise to get your ducks in a row before going down that path. This for the sake of your narriage and for this woman.
First off there is the task of telling your wife. That could put a damper on your feel good situation with this woman for awhile. Depending on what she is like, she could become very concerned and emotional. Make sure you are ready for that.
A heavy case of NRE? ...I can believe that. And telling my wife is going to be the hardest part. Opening up and telling her. My natural impulse is to sit and internalize it all, rather than share what I know she doesn't want to hear. But you are right. I can't keep doing this. I've ignored this pattern in my life since I was 15 and it ain't healthy. I'm excited to change that, if I can. More to say later but must go to work. Thanks!