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Old 02-02-2011, 09:17 PM
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Originally Posted by GroundedSpirit View Post
And your warning flags naturally go up when someone doesn't want to meet/acknowledge your existence . . . The poly GF would have to have such deep trust in her SO that she could get comfortable with a total unknown being in the picture.
The gf isn't totally unknown to the OP, nor unacknowledged:

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Originally Posted by BaconWrappedCupcakes View Post
. . . we spoke in early stages of this relationship . . .

I think it's just going to take some patience, consideration, and heartfelt communication to arrive at a solution that works for all involved. Maybe the gf would be satisfied with only talking again and not meeting in person, if you are willing to do that.
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