This forum has helped me a lot. Basically it just showed me that I should relax and see where any given situation was going before I overreacted.
Although as a mono I neither advocate nor denigrate poly as a lifestyle (We are just trying to live our life) I have felt a sense of community here.
I have been able to give back some support for a couple of other people off forum (who contacted me) who are in the same situation. That's enough for me.
"The secret of life, though, is to fall seven times but to get up eight times"