I do love her very much. She is generally a very understanding person too. However, I can understand that this is a bit shocking. I totally think we could have a wonderful relationship through all of this. From my point of view there is no reason to get a divorce. We did take a vow through better, and worse. I can totally understand if she doesn't agree with that anymore.
I totally understand if she wants a divorce, and I will support her 100%, but I would much rather stay married and work through it if she is willing.
Today she asked me if I was dating anyone. I was like, that is a bit sudden. I told her no, but I did meet some women that I am very interested in having a relationship with.