Originally Posted by MonoVCPHG
I would suggest that perhaps you aren't quite as mono as you think
Mine is not a mantle..it's my nature
I still love you though Sage, just not in that way
'Mono' was always a choice for me. I don't need to be poly either, that's why I'm going to refer to myself as 'poly-friendly' but I wonder how do you know what is nature and what is something we identify with because it suits us, it's comfortable for us and we've had strong social conditioning?
Everyone who has ever met me would say I'm an extrovert by nature. Since I've given up alcohol I'm becoming more and more introverted. Is that just an alcohol thing or does it perhaps say that I wanted to be extrovert and used alcohol to achieve it ?