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Old 02-01-2011, 02:07 AM
AutumnalTone AutumnalTone is offline
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Originally Posted by sage View Post
But I think labels and identities are only valuable if we use them as temporary structures that make it safe for us to come to terms with our lives so that we can move on to what is really authentically us.
Nah. Labels are useful as long as they describe the current situation. Use them for anything other than description and then they are less than useful.
When speaking of various forms of ain't poly if you're just fucking around.

While polyamory, open relationships, and swinging are all distinctly different approaches to non-monogamy, they are not mutually exlusive. Folks can, and some do, engage in more than one of them at a time--and it's all good.
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