Originally Posted by sohuman
[I] have never laid eyes or ears, let alone any other body part, on an actual poly person.
His question: he has never met a single poly person in all his life either....
That's what folks used to say about gay people -- before gay people began coming out of the closet in vast numbers. My point being that you've both probably met and interacted with plenty of poly folks who just didn't happen to mention their poly status (for whatever reasons). A LOT of poly folks are in the closet about it. Which is a shame.