Originally Posted by NeonKaos
So what do you mean you "have not found one example" and "don't advocate"? You "advocate" it through actions and the way you run your life.
True, I have an awesome relationship, only because I am a sucker for punishment and so is Mono. I think if we didn't enjoy torturing each other then we would not be in this today...
OP, if you enjoy torturing your partner and them torturing you.... with long drawn out conversations, discussions and debates that don't seem to ever have and end... followed by tons of heartache and great make up sex... then go for it! Mono/poly all the way!