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Old 01-30-2011, 11:10 PM
AutumnalTone AutumnalTone is offline
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Originally Posted by nightwalker View Post
She was unhappy and felt that poly was the solution to keep us together as a family.
That's a major problem. Adding more people to the mix is no way to fix a relationship that isn't working.

This--and not your child--is an actual *reason* to put things on hold. You'll have to settle the issues in your marriage before you can ever hope to have a successful poly tangle.
When speaking of various forms of ain't poly if you're just fucking around.

While polyamory, open relationships, and swinging are all distinctly different approaches to non-monogamy, they are not mutually exlusive. Folks can, and some do, engage in more than one of them at a time--and it's all good.
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