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Old 09-05-2009, 06:48 PM
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Originally Posted by JRiverMartin View Post
I've noticed a LOT of male(1) + female(1) couples showing up in this forum, looking for a female "third". In most if not all of these cases, the woman in the couple is bi and the guy is straight. What I'm wondering is... where are the male(1) + female(1) couples where the guy is bi and the gal is straight--and they're looking for another guy? Don't such couples exist? Why have we not seen any of this latter kind and SO much of the former?
I think at least part of it is societal. First, bisexual (or lesbian) women are generally more accepted than bisexual (or gay) men. Second, many straight women would probably not marry a bisexual man due to that very reason. It's a prejudice and a stigma and not right or fair...but there you have it. IMO
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