I have been into swinging for many years now & never knew poly existed. I always knew that I preferred to play with a few select men. I discovered poly on a TV special and have been hooked on it since. I am so much more comfortable getting to know a man, trusting him with my heart and body than a stranger. My marriage is and always has been open, my husband however does not feel that he could ever live under one roof but encourages me to seek a constant lover in my life.