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Old 01-30-2011, 01:38 AM
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Originally Posted by bella123456 View Post
Flamekat - Congrats to you for getting out of a toxic environment, finding yourself and moving to a better place..

Not an easy thing to do for sure...

But if the alternative is staying - Well, that would be the harder path to be on...

Sharing stories like this does help people, Good for you !
Thanks Bella - I took the hard path for 15 years... at the time I left I thought myself a failure (even though I had the righteous indignation happening...and the how fucking dare you do this to me attitude)

emotional abuse is the worst - it saps you of your strength and any notion that you know what is right for yourself... I am still learning that how I feel and think is right ... for me.
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