Originally Posted by Lobster
For those of you who might be reading this and don't know the whole story, a few months ago my wife asked me if she could open our marriage to another man.
Don't be so hard on yourself. A few months ago, is not that long ago. Read through some of the blogs, you are not the only one on this rollercoaster, people who have been on this ride for years are still struggling. I'm not saying that you won't find the peace you need, just don't beat yourself up about needing that extra reassurance now and again.