Originally Posted by redpepper
These are just random thoughts coming from a woman who is really not doing so good right now, so bare with me.
Hugs, hugs, hugs, and a big kiss on the cheek.
I was sitting here perplexed thinking poly-fi? I didn't think that they were in a poly-fi dynamic.
Then I thought;....
just goes to show everyone has different definitions.
AH yes-that was the point!
Seriously though-I think that in some ways you do come across as a poly-mother. Not the way you took it though.
I used to be a stripper. There was a "housemom" whose job it was to take care of the dancers, keep anyone from getting themselves into a dangerous situation, be sure we had what we needed to do our job safely.
You somewhat remind me of a "house mother" in that way. Always trying to help people avoid the pitfalls you've already experienced or witnessed in polyamory.