Originally Posted by sunilmuse
Thanks for that insight..It seems poly is much more about investment in loving relationships rather than just about sex.
How many partners do poly people tend to cultivate, on average? Can the numbers be quite high or does it tend to be 2 or 3 lovers per person in a poly relationship?
Most of the questions you'll probably ask have been answered here:
You should read around on the forum, learn the lingo, etc., and THEN ask questions that have not been answered and/or are specific to your situation.
You're asking some pretty basic questions which suggests to me that you haven't done your "homework" already. There is a lot that has already been written on here which is timely advice and you will find that there are a lot of people who went through the same thing you're going through, who are no longer around to write a brand-new answer in reply to your posts.
(Folks - that was "sugar-coated" for "RTFM")