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Old 01-28-2011, 02:57 AM
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Yes it is but I'm coming from a mono back ground so I'm feeling quite proud of myself that I have been able to reach a place where we can have an agreement that fits us both.

So much of polymono relationships is about compromise and boundaries and for most of us it needs to be for a while so we can iron out our insecurities and come to terms with the whole thing.
But for me it feels ....can't think of a word...like a kind of coming of age to be able to operate within a polymono relationship with the same kind of principles that any polyamorous relationship would have. It's a bit like being able to take off the training wheels.
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