I've spent the last week processing the idea of Mono rights, poly rights and secondary rights. The result is a Relationship Covenant
Ultimate Polyamory I believe is about placing our right and the right of our partners to experience their "authentic self" at the forefront of our decisions and choices.
Oh and GS I think I would gladly forsake NRE for peace but maybe that's just because I received such a wonderful dose of it with Z not that long ago. I think I'm moving towards relieving myself of my mono cape but it would take someone very special for me to risk the contentment and peace that I feel in my polymono relationship.