Originally Posted by NeonKaos
I have at least one that transcends all that, I just can't prove it; and it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks.
It may not pass until the two of you are mouldering in the grave. Those are the really fun ones.
When speaking of various forms of non-monogamy...it ain't poly if you're just fucking around.
While polyamory, open relationships, and swinging are all distinctly different approaches to non-monogamy, they are not mutually exlusive. Folks can, and some do, engage in more than one of them at a time--and it's all good.