I read everything in a slow and careful manner so as to absorb. Thank you for the warm welcomes and thoughtful replies. I hope my husband reads it and sees that you guys are a cut above, because as you may have guessed, he's on the fence, and I am not.
You're probably right about us each having already met poly people but just not knowing, and about conversion being potentially obnoxious.
Good night, sweet polys. <3 <3