Sometimes I am shy to ask people if they would be/could be interested in a couple because they have themselves listed as only
looking for a whimsical unicorn creature (also known as the single female). After considering our needs we found that there are several relationship structures (single, couple, V, open, fidelity) that could "theoretically" satisfy our dreams of a poly relationship. So maybe if you find out what could
feasibly work for you maybe it will open up some more ideas. Just a thought & good luck!