We went to our first therapy session. It was very good. Now we have to wait 3 more weeks for the next one. My husband still won't let me talk to my friend though.
My friend's wife is one of my best friends. She told me yesterday that if my husband ever said it was ok to talk to him again, she'd probably say no. She didn't like how he becane controlling of me when this all went down. She doesn't want to see or talk to him ever again.
I was just devastated hearing this. Here we have been working hard to get US ok. Working on us as a couple & also figuring out how to live with someone else in my life too. And while we aren't there, her saying that took away the light at the end of the tunnel.
My husband says he wishes he could snap his fingers and be ok with poly, but he isn't. Therapy was interesting but was with only one session, we're not there yet.
So, there is my update. I'm so glad we found an accepting therapist.