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Old 01-25-2011, 07:21 PM
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Sounds like you have some good ideas. You could cook them a meal and provide pen & paper, create a relaxed atmosphere. Other than that, you will have to tell them it is "up to them" because it is, & it should be. Let them work out some things their way, for themselves, so they can grow their relationship. If you coddle their relationship and are too overprotective of it, then it will always be in "baby stage". Try to be positive and encouraging, point out the positive things they will gain from such a reconciliation. That is, after all, your goal.
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