no prob Ygirl, not offended in the least
I put that to my Mum that perhaps she might be jealous. She was infuriated even more. Most of the time we were together was taken up with what happened after I asked that question... in that she went on about her horrible life and how disappointed she is in it. I have heard the speech a million times before but this time I told her I don't want to hear it again unless it's in the form of what she is doing about it. So done with the whiny, drama filled, victim thing.
My Dad was very upset that I would never talk to them both again. I am talking to him at the moment as it wasn't him that participated. He didn't try and stop her either and instead went into his guilt mode.