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Old 09-04-2009, 03:35 PM
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I really believe that we did the right thing leaving telling them until we were really established and have found some normalcy in our poly "V." I can't stress enough how important it is to take things slowly. The fact that we did that and are rock solid means that no one can deny that we aren't doing just fine.

We won't be telling them about any others in our lives that is for sure. We told them there have been others, but they don't know that there are now! I figure that unless we have someone as close as Mono to us there is no reason...

I have been going through a kind of mourning process over all this. Anger, disbelief, sadness. Today is sadness that I don't have parents that I can be completely open with. I have others I can be with... it's all good.
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