My first reaction to your post is to say that I think you're jumping the gun here. Correct me if I'm wrong here, but isn't Lobster struggling with your poly situation? If I were you, I would put my attention on your relationships now, communicating, and making sure everyone is in good shape emotionally before coming out to the world. Because you all need to be strong and secure to face it if and when the shit hits the fan.
The world opens up... when you do.
Oh, oh, can't you see? Love is the drug for me. ~Bryan Ferry
"Love is that condition in which another person's happiness is essential to your own." ~Robert Heinlein