My first reaction to your post is to say that I think you're jumping the gun here. Correct me if I'm wrong here, but isn't Lobster struggling with your poly situation? If I were you, I would put my attention on your relationships now, communicating, and making sure everyone is in good shape emotionally before coming out to the world. Because you all need to be strong and secure to face it if and when the shit hits the fan.
Hot chick in the city.
Oh, oh, can't you see? Love is the drug for me.