Originally Posted by nycindie
Hmm, well, she's not a toy, you know. She just might have a preference about who she wants to be with, don't you think?
Very much so. Did you discuss your desire with gf#2? Did she agree to fidelity with you inside your shared circle of partners? There is simply no substitute for communication, and *lots* of it, no exceptions. You cannot control people, but you can set mutually agreeable boundaries which should be honored.