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Old 01-25-2011, 01:50 AM
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Originally Posted by aslesa View Post
thing is, *I* wanted gf#2 ALL TO MYSELF. i didn't want hubby involved. i felt i clicked with her immediately like i had not done in such a along time, but hubby did not listen to my SPECIFIC AND IN NO UNCERTAIN WORDS when i SAID: "i want her!! mine!!"
Hmm, well, she's not a toy, you know. She just might have a preference about who she wants to be with, don't you think?
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