Wow. Some of those questions are actually quite thought provoking-and some are downright insulting and hurtful. Your son being sexually abused? I think that would get me so angry. Childhood sexual abuse does not happen because of poly. It happens because someone is a sexual abuser!
As far as some others, you've given me some things to think on should a situation ever arise where my husband and I come out to some of the less accepting people in our families. Thanks for sharing your experience despite the pain. Some questions I could answer for myself right now. Some I really have to consider.
I'd rather be hated for who I am than loved for who I am not.