As for being very young, not so much. I'm in my mid 30's (which admittedly isn't ancient by any stretch of the imagination...but I wouldn't go so far as to think of it as very young either). The wanting to be perfect isn't about my appearance. I really don't put a lot of effort in in that department. It's more about being perceived as nice and good and outgoing as well as I have this expectation of myself that I should be able to have a full time job, raise kids, do derby and still be able to keep an immaculate house.
Everything will be ok in the end. If it's not ok it's not the end.