Originally Posted by SNeacail
Some of us do feel guilty (on occasion) for doing activites that our partner has absolutely no intrests in and therefore we do such activities alone or forego them altogether. Derby was saying that by your wife having another partner, you now have the freedom to do some activities that she wouldn't want to participate in anyway, without the guilt of her feeling left out.
Thanks I get it. I operate on lets try this and those who didn't enjoy the activity don't need to come again. Lost the desire to try to make sure everyone is having fun. Hey the party starts when I get there and its over when I leave. I looked at your profile which didn't tell your situation, are you poly or husband or partner just?