Originally Posted by vandalin
Ygirl: I like how you put the differences between jealousy & envy. This is something that has come up recently in regards to Elric and myself. He has mentioned a couple gals on FB often enough for me to feel something but I wasn't sure quite what. Using your definitions I can deduce that what I feel is envy, I am envious of the other gals because I wish I could have the attention he is giving them for myself. Thanks!
It seems that envy is an okay part of compersion while jealousy is something we would not want in compersion so must work through and get rid of. Yes?
You wish I could have the attention he gives them to yourself? Isn't that jealousy?