A look at some relationship dysfunction
I've had this link in my bookmarks since the post first appeared. I revisit it every now and then and find that it serves as good information for those interested in developing healthy, functional relationships by highlighting a bunch of things that make for dysfunctional relationships.
When speaking of various forms of non-monogamy...it ain't poly if you're just fucking around.
While polyamory, open relationships, and swinging are all distinctly different approaches to non-monogamy, they are not mutually exlusive. Folks can, and some do, engage in more than one of them at a time--and it's all good.