He is, he's doing NA. He got his 2 month chip last night, which i think is just great. I know the forgiveness/amends thing, because my dad is doing AA also, well, he did it for a long time but dropped out semi-recently. He's not drinking though, so i guess that's good.
I'm just going to see what happens with S for now. We were really close, so it will be interesting seeing if we can rebuild a friendship.