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Old 01-23-2011, 05:34 PM
lovinhimloviner lovinhimloviner is offline
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It is important to take it all one step at a time. I know im my situation my H gf is very insecure by nature. She is also mono and never figured she would fall for a married man. What works for us is the fact that her and I talk everyday. We got to know each other. We didn't talk on the phone or in person but in IM and or on cam. We can now laugh together and talk about our love for our man. I try to make her feel better but she is usually her own worst enemy. She told him once that she felt like the other woman. The thing is the only person who thinks of her that way is her. I know it is hard to feel strong going in to this kind of relationship but it can also be very rewarding. try to put your self in his shoes for a little bit. I am sure he wants you to feel comfortable. Talk to him about why you are feeling this way. Maybe there is something that can be done to make you feel better.
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