Originally Posted by Fidelia
So is generosity. Personal integrity is huge for me. So is confidence. Kindness and compassion. PASSION! Definitely passion! And not just sexual. I LOVE it when someone is really passionate for a cause, or a field of study, or an art form, or whatever turns them on. Makes for great conversations, which in turn may lead to deeper sharing and then, well . . . who knows!
Oh Yes! All this too! I think these are all important!
I think the Smart thing is just the initial at first glance thing I go to though, I like it when someone is smarter than I am because I love to learn. I try to make all my situations, relationships or otherwise, learning situations, because with out it I get bored really fast. You can actually learn from just about anything, regardless of how smart someone is, but knowing some one is smart from the get go, gives you a good idea what your in for....
I am not sure I explained that right. LOL. I may be into smart people, but I am not especially bright myself. Hahaha!