Originally Posted by XYZ123
I guess what I was trying to get at is I'd like to be seen as just ME in a first impression. Not this big, waddling, sweaty woman with heartburn. Though I guess that is ME at the moment. lol
You'll be more apparently who and what you are when you let go of "first impressions" as so dang important, or crucial. Self-consciousness makes us all sweaty! -- with heartburn. So the paradox stands: to be yourself, let go of yourself.