Thank you guys. Now I truly feel silly! lol
I guess what I was trying to get at is I'd like to be seen as just ME in a first impression. Not this big, waddling, sweaty woman with heartburn. Though I guess that is ME at the moment. lol
I have to write a summary. I keep meaning to get to it but I never seem to. I have tomorrow afternoon free though so watch for one if you like.
I'd rather be hated for who I am than loved for who I am not.