My husband and I often communicate better through text messages throughout the day if one of us is having a problem than in person. He is very logical. I am very emotional. Sometimes the written word and space between us and time to think through responses evens the playing field. When we are together again in person, we are usually calmer and at least halfway to a resolution, if not totally there and falling into eachother's arms. It isn't about the TYPE of communication. It is just about communicating.
I'd rather be hated for who I am than loved for who I am not.