Originally Posted by dingedheart
It was a little over whelming try to understand all the back stories.
It was just a start. Keep reading. If you click on a person's name, a drop down will appear and you can see what else that person has written in other threads. Warning, some have thousands of post, like Mono & Sage, but are well worth reading. You can also send that personal a PM (private message) if you have something specific to ask that person.
Here is a link to the "Golden Nuggets" section it might be helpful http://www.polyamory.com/forum/forumdisplay.php?f=26