Being in a relationship with someone who has a DADT policy with their primary implicates her in his deception.
I think it's really good that you've identified that you need to build up some new relationships so that you aren't so emotionally dependent on your partner. But it also sounds as if you've put her on a bit of a pedestal. Your feelings are your feelings and should be validated.
Last edited by sage; 01-21-2011 at 09:09 AM.